"The WiFi is broken."
The most common four words in elder tech support. Here is the complete playbook to handle the call without losing 45 minutes of your day.
The opening 30 seconds
Before you start troubleshooting, ask three questions:
- "Is it just the [phone, computer, TV] or everything?" This tells you if the network is down or one device is off.
- "What does the screen say?" Specific error messages narrow it down. "Cannot connect" is different from "No internet."
- "When did it last work?" If it worked an hour ago, it is probably a power blip. If it has not worked all day, the ISP might be down.
Now you know what you are solving for.
Fix 1: Power cycle the router (60% of calls)
The single most effective fix. Walk them through it line by line:
"Okay. Walk over to the router. It is the box [where you know it is]. Unplug the power cable from the back. Wait 30 seconds. Plug it back in. The lights will flicker. Wait another 2 minutes for everything to settle. Then try the WiFi."
If they ask "which cable?" the power cable is the round one that goes to the wall. Not the thin one that looks like a phone line. If you cannot tell them in advance which is which, color-code with electrical tape on the next visit.
Fix 2: The device reconnect (20% of calls)
If only one device cannot connect (and the router is fine), the device fell off the network.
iPhone
- Settings > WiFi.
- Tap the (i) next to the network name.
- Tap "Forget This Network."
- Go back. Re-pick the network. Type the password.
Mac
- System Settings > Network > WiFi.
- Click the network. Click "Forget."
- Re-pick. Re-enter password.
Windows
- Settings > Network & internet > WiFi.
- Manage known networks. Click the network. "Forget."
- Re-pick. Re-enter password.
Fix 3: Check the WiFi network (8% of calls)
Sometimes the device connected to the wrong network. Routers broadcast multiple (2.4 GHz, 5 GHz, guest). Or a neighbor's WiFi.
Ask them to read the network name they are connected to. Does it match their normal one? If not, switch.
Fix 4: Check upstream (7% of calls)
If the router lights are red, orange, or showing an error, the internet provider is the problem. Check the provider's outage page or app. If outage confirmed, just wait.
If no outage and lights are still wrong, call the provider:
- Comcast/Xfinity: 1-800-934-6489
- Spectrum: 1-833-267-6094
- AT&T: 1-800-288-2020
- Verizon Fios: 1-800-837-4966
Have the account number ready.
Fix 5: Replace the hardware (5% of calls)
If you are power-cycling weekly, the router is dying. Replace.
Good options for older parents:
- Eero (Amazon). Single-app setup. Updates automatically. Solid mesh.
- Google Nest WiFi. Similar story. App-managed.
- TP-Link Deco. Cheaper. Works well.
Set it up while you visit. Take a photo of the new password. Tape it under the router.
The "What if" branches
"The lights are blinking weird."
Each router brand has different light meanings. Generally: solid green or white = good. Blinking = working but unsettled. Red or orange = problem. Have them take a photo and text it to you.
"I cannot find the router."
Walk them through their house. The router is usually within 10 feet of where the cable comes into the house (TV room, office). Look for a box with antennas and blinking lights.
"There is no password printed on it."
Some routers have stickers underneath instead. Some have it on a separate card from the install. Some have it changed to something custom. If you cannot find it, you can reset the router (hold the reset button with a paperclip for 10 seconds, then use the default password from the manufacturer's site).
The pre-emptive setup
On your next visit, do these three things:
- Tape a card under the router with: network name, password, and "if not working: unplug for 30 seconds, plug back in, wait 2 minutes."
- Label all cables with electrical tape and a Sharpie. "POWER" on the power cable. "INTERNET" on the cable going to the modem.
- Make sure the router is somewhere your parent can reach without moving heavy furniture.
Done. The "WiFi is broken" call is now a 90-second call instead of a 45-minute call.
Or just don't take the call
If you want it off your plate entirely, Kinline handles this exact playbook. Your parent calls the number, says "the WiFi is broken," and Kinline walks them through the power cycle, the device reconnect, and the upstream check in order. You get a text saying it is fixed.
For deeper diagnosis, see why your parent's WiFi keeps breaking. For the related printer pain, see how to set up a printer remotely.